Thursday, September 24, 2009
Friday, September 18, 2009
day 6 or 'has it really been 15 years?'
today we said goodbye to rosignano marritimo . we had such a great time here and know that we will be back, maybe with the kids next time. we were excited to head out of town to our next destination firenze.
again we had our map in hand. but honestly i did not know where we were going. and right off the bat we missed the toll road entrance. we drove and drove but never picked up a ticket. finally we stopped to get gas and found out that we were on the regular road. but at least we were headed in the right direction. we were told not to drive in florence because the roads are so small and everyone gets around on foot. once we entered the city we understood what they were talking about. lots of one way streets, construction and lots of people. i think we passed the hotel about three times before we finally got there. i was frustrated but so thankful that bobby was able to figure it out and get us there. i told him that if i were driving i would have stopped in the middle of one of those roundy-rounds and just started crying. seriously.
i had found a bed and breakfast on the internet with good reviews. the best part was the location. just a block away from the duomo. and we got the room with the terrace. here's a view from it looking toward the duomo which was around the corner to the right.
we unpacked, got instructions from the manager, alessandro, who was soooo nice and spoke incredible english. he gave us directions to the american express office and off we went. ok so here comes the story:
before leaving LA we purchased traveller's checks just to be safe. we had some cash, dollars, and when we landed in rome we exchanged 1 $100 check for euros. we thought the rates would be bad at the airport and just figured that we would exchange the rest once we got to rosignano. the problem was that the town was so small that the bank didn't take the checks. and when we were in a place that had a bigger bank we were always there when they were closed, which was a big portion of the day. mental note: if we ever move to italy, work for the bank. we exchanged some of the cash we had and basically paid for food, souvenirs, etc. with our credit card. by the time we got to florence we were cash poor, really. but we were in luck because there was an american express office here. so after walking by the duomo and bapistery we went looking for the office. well, guess what? it didn't exist. we asked, we looked, we walked, we googled. we have no idea what happened but there was no american express office anywhere. we passed a few change houses but their rates were worse than the banks and they charged a commission, and by that time the banks were, you guessed it, closed. so we figured that we would just get by with what we had for one more day.
now, we were blown away by a few things in florence. i was in awe of all of the stores i saw; gucci, chanel, cartier, tiffany's, fendi. not that i shop at these places but i dream about it. we were shocked by the prices. the exchange rate was almost $1.50 to 1 euro. so whatever price we saw on the ticket we still had to add 50% to get the dollar amount. yikes! i guess i won't be doing much shopping here anyway. we were surprised and comforted by how much english we heard. not just by the locals but there were a lot of american tourists and other europeans that spoke english. and we were amazed that around every corner was a church, or a museum or a sculpture that we have seen in books or movies or on tv. it was almost overwhelming.
it was also a huge change of pace from where we came. this was a lively city. people were dressed with sophistication, well except for us tourists. there was a hustle and bustle that we didn't feel when we were in rosignano. we almost felt like we should have started our vacation here to ease into the lifestlye and then head to rosignano to relax and unwind. but in a way this helped ease us back to a more normal way of life for us.
we saw ponte vecchio, the bridge lined with shops. florence is known for its leather and gold. i had every intention of getting both, but ended up just window shopping.
we had also read in our book that there was a great gelato place just around the corner. when we got there the line was out the door. but we were willing to wait, until we found out that they only took cash and we were down to our last 2 euro. so no gelato for us tonight.
so it was time for bed. tomorrow another full day of florence and maybe a few more euros to get some gelato.
to end this entry i have to take a moment to declare my love to the best guy in the world. he truly made this trip a vacation of a lifetime. and he has given me the most amazing 15 years. he is an outstanding father. he cares so much about our family. he always makes me feel loved, even when i am having a bad day. and the best part of all is that he makes me laugh, everyday. he is dedicated, has such a kind spirit and is the most talented person i know. i am so honored to be his wife. thanks for making my dreams come true. i love you!

Wednesday, September 16, 2009
day 5 or 'our favorite town & the best pizza I've ever had in my entire life'
so are you bored yet? i'm half way through the trip. just a few more days to go.
we saw the main piazza, palazzo del priori, the oldest town hall in tuscany. we didn't go to the duomo or the bapistery or the museum but we fell in love with the feel of this town. narrow streets intersecting with each other. shops and homes. a beautiful park that had an entruscan acropolis where archeologists were conducting a dig. history was being uncovered right before our eyes.
it was lunch time. we did do the tourist thing and walk around with our map and our guide book. but we weren't the only ones. we used the book a few times to get recommendations for restaurants or cafes but they were either closed or not there anymore.
finally, we had a cappuccino at the enotecca, wine shop. seriously, each day just kept getting better and better.
tomorrow we pack up our things and head to firenze for our anniversary. . .
in other news
sharing some things that are making me happy today
- getting a note from my former boss at dreamworks. i have been trying to contact him for years and he found me. one reason to love facebook.
- b bringing me a pumpkin spice latte this morning. we are on a starbucks diet hoping to pay off our vacation debt. thanks for the surprise honey. it was totally worth the wait.
- CHA. i've said it before and i will say it again. i love the kids' school. we had back to school night for jordan last night and tomorrow it's andrew's turn. this school is the perfect place for our boys. love the teachers, love the other parents, love the kids, love, love, love.
- feeling like i have some kind of a schedule to my day and week. really working on getting things organized so that the house runs smoothly and i am not always in panic mode. getting things crossed off my list, except for the laundry. it can't always be perfect.
- thinking about sofia's upcoming birthday. my baby is going to be 4?! seriously, it went too fast. coming up with ways to celebrate. somehow i think princesses will be involved.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
day 4 or 'when in tuscany'
so armed with our knowledge of the town, enough italian to ask for the bill and find the bathroom, and some driver's education we decided to STAY HOME! yup we napped and played scrabble and skip bo and read and watched tv, italian news. it's not that we were scared to go out, we just needed a day to regroup, take it easy and just spend the day being lazy.
one of the things that i really wanted to do was experience life here. take in the sights and sounds of the everyday, my own version of 'under the tuscan sun'. because it was so hot we kept all of the windows open and you could hear people talking outside their homes. you could hear dishes being washed. you could smell when dinner was cooking. you could hear the children playing on the street. you could hear when dad came home from work. it was life in tuscany and for one day we were going to pretend we were a part of it.
it was fun to cook together, something we never get to do. we heated up the pizzas in the oven, made a salad, poured the wine and sat down to watch a movie. allen has an extensive movie library here. we decided to watch 'cinema paradiso' since i hadn't seen it yet and it was in italian. and that was it. not many pictures. didn't go to a church. no works of art. no gelato! but this was just what we needed. a perfect vacation day.
in other news
sofia has been sick for the past few days. not terrible but she stayed home from school yesterday. could it be the swine flu? trying not to be paranoid about it. just loving her lots. we will be going to the library later today to get some new bedtime books. and making some muffins for a pto meeting tomorrow.
Sunday, September 13, 2009
day 3 or 'history, a leaning tower and a squid'
ok, so this is taking a lot longer than i would have liked. i will try to get through the rest of the trip this week so we can move on to other things.
so we had the day to ourselves to wander around tuscany and discover something new and exciting. we looked at the map and picked a spot, actually two, that looked interesting. this was something that i loved. there was no schedule or tour that we had to do. we just took it day by day, changed plans as we saw fit and ran on our own schedule. the feeling was completely freeing and relaxing.
our first stop on our adventure was lucca. we had read about it in our tour book and wanted to see the city behind the ancient
back to the road and the map. this was the road.
now i know that i am about to cause a huge controversy by admitting this but . . .we did not take a picture of one of us holding up the tower. i know, many of you will be disappointed. oh bobby wanted to do it. he wanted to have the tower leaning against his backside or holding it up with his tongue. but i did not go for it. go ahead say it, who invited the party pooper? it was hysterical to see everyone else doing it though. and i guess in the end it wouldn't have hurt. maybe next time. so here's the boring old picture of just the tower. we do have photoshop though . . .
we went back to the house for a little nap and then off to dinner. this time allen invited us to join his friend, leticia at a neighborhood restaurant.
in other news
Friday, September 11, 2009
day 2 or 'everyday italians'
the next morning, sunday, bobby and i got up at almost 12 . . .pm!! that's right, we slept all night and then into the morning. it must have been the sleeping pills, or the time change, or the fact that we didn't have 3 little ones asking for breakfast and tv. poor allen was waiting for us to get up with fresh bread and coffee. and he wanted to take us on a road trip to bolgheri. so we sipped and ate and headed out. the road to this village was gorgeous. a tree lined road that lead to the cobblestone path that lead to this quaint little town. there was a wedding that day in the small church and we got to see the bride and groom arrive. it looked like the whole town was there and they were cheering and applauding. maybe they were italian movie stars or soccer players. we walked the shops and learned something very early in the trip, don't go shopping at lunch time. stores close for lunch and nap time from 1 til about 4. so if you want to do some shopping you have to do it before or after. some of the little souvenir shops and cafes were open so we did some shopping there.
for dinner allen wanted to take us to a seafood restaurant that he loves. enriquo, the chef/owner was the personal chef to a baywatch babe although we never found out who, in san francisco for a number of years. we met allen's neighbors, simone and valentina who joined us for dinner. from the moment we got there we were treated like special guests. enriquo brought out a fish tank with the fresh catch of the day. we got to inspect and pick what we wanted him to cook. now i consider myself a foodie. i love cooking and anything related to food. but i have never seen anything like this. there was no menu just options. for the first course i chose a fish soup that valentina described as being 'something special.' bobby opted for the raw seafood. not sushi, but italian style raw fish, with soy sauce. second course was lobster ravioli. the main course was a gigantic red snapper cooked with potatoes and bell peppers. it fed the entire table.
the other thing we learned right away was that italians take dinner very seriously. we headed off to dinner at 8pm and by 12 we were having dessert. we talked and laughed and got to know each other. enriquo sat at our table and shared stories about life in italy. i loved listening to them talk in italian. i can understand some of it if they speak slowly. but once they started talking to each other i was lost. at one point i was overwhelmed by the smell of fresh baking bread. well it was so late that the bakery next door was already preparing bread for the next morning. so as we were talking enriquo walked over with a plate of fresh baked croissants. chocolate chip and peach filling. i was so full but i couldn't resist the hot, tender taste of a freshly baked croissant. it was flaky and heavenly. at that point i thought to myself, how did i get so lucky? it's one thing to be able to take a vacation like this, away from the kids to such a beautiful place. but it is something entirely different to be able to experience this life with people who live there. this is their everyday and i felt a part of it.
so by 1:30am we were headed back to the house to get some sleep. monday bobby and i were off on an adventure of our own.
in other news
all of the local news crews were here and some of the newspapers. it was supposed to be on the today show this morning and on the local news throughout the day. if you can remember, say a little prayer today for all of the people affected by this tragic event.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
day 1 or 'looking for signs'
i really wasn't sure how to start this blog post. how do you summarize a trip of a lifetime in a short and entertaining way? not sure i have the answer to that. but i realized, thanks to sarah, that i couldn't do it in one post. so i will be posting over the next few days with our trip memories, anecdotes and some of our 700 pictures. so here goes.
i was nervous, to say the least, about leaving our three kids for 10 days, to travel across the globe, to a foreign country, where we really didn't speak the language, and miss the kids' first days of school, with bobby, to celebrate our 15th wedding anniversary. a few times i thought to myself that we were crazy and no matter how much it cost we should just cancel our plans. i mean really it is only 15 more years before sofia will be off to college and we will be empty nesters ready to start a new life. right? wrong. oh, so wrong.
this trip was an experience that was needed and greatly appreciated. let's not talk about the fact that the new lens i ordered didn't come until 8:15 pm on thursday. and there was no way i was getting on the airplane without it. we spent the night at bob and d's and at 4:00 am on friday morning bob drove us to the airport. kissing the kids goodbye was a lot easier to do while they were sleeping.
the days before the trip i was looking for signs that would tell me it was ok to go. nothing really clear came my way. but when we landed in detroit, (yes, detroit people), for our 5 hour layover, (that's right i said 5 hour), i saw this sign and something inside said it would be alright. that and the fact that our plane landed in one piece.
so what does one do for five hours in an airport, in detroit? i'm not going to lie, we thought about getting a cab and going to a movie. but logic got the best of us and we stayed in the airport, had lunch at tequila joe's, no alcohol was consumed, and watched '17 again' on the laptop. cute movie by the way. then we boarded our airbus for the 9 hour flight to rome. we took sleeping pills to help with the long flight. and because it was an international flight movies were free! so we watched 'he's just not that into you' and 'wolverine.' when we woke up in the morning we were in italy.
next step was getting the rental car. we rented a stick shift to save on money and hopefully gas. we ended up with an alfa romeo 'mito.' cute little car, and i mean little. i had complete confidence in bobby to get us around town, but getting out of the airport parking structure was another story. in his defense, the turns for the ramps were hard to get around, but the car stalled . . .a few times. now i have to admit that i do not do well in pressure situations and i promised myself that i would use this vacation to relax and make an effort to laugh at stressful situations. well, it didn't work this time. i wanted to walk away from the car and pay the extra money for an automatic. but bobby reassured me that it would be ok. i think his exact words were, 'calm down, you're overeacting!' not the best way to start our romantic getaway.
the other thing i have to admit is that i am terrible with directions. so map in hand i was going to help bobby navigate the crazy road signs for the 3 hour drive to allen's house. we saw the beautiful sights of italy, ate at a roadside autogrill, and decided to take a side road that lead us to the natural sulfur springs.
it was incredible and of course we had to get in, even though it smelled horrible. sign number 2 was this grasshopper that landed on bobby's back. they are good luck, right?
and we needed it as we got back on the road. we followed the map through some windy but beautiful scenery. then we were back on the highway. the street directions which came at us way too fast said to turn on the toll road, which was a mistake. the toll road had no exit so we had to stay on it and ended up driving in a big circle to get to our exit. 45 minutes later, and frustrated, we met up with allen who took us up to his village.
when you think of tuscany you think of little hilly towns with old buildings, laundry hanging from the windows, little old ladies sitting outside their homes gossiping or sharing recipes. that is exactly what rosignano marritimo is. we were shocked and felt like we had stepped into a dream. allen showed us our room on the third floor of his 14th century home and let us settle in. then he took us to the restaurant across the street, literally 10 feet away, for our first authentic italian feast.
prosciutto and melon, potato ravioli, balsamic vinegar braised pork, fried rabbitt and torte with frutta de bosco, oh and wine. and the third sign was that our table number was 3. and 3 just happens to be my lucky number.
we were in heaven. and we were exhausted. so it was off to bed.
that was day one. stay tuned for the next post...
in other news:
we took the boys to school on tuesday for their 'unofficial' first day of school photos. they had a great first week and their teachers are awesome! this will be a good year.

today was sofia's first day of preschool. despite the fact that she told me she was not really excited about going to school she had a great time. she will be going 3 days a week.
i was nervous, to say the least, about leaving our three kids for 10 days, to travel across the globe, to a foreign country, where we really didn't speak the language, and miss the kids' first days of school, with bobby, to celebrate our 15th wedding anniversary. a few times i thought to myself that we were crazy and no matter how much it cost we should just cancel our plans. i mean really it is only 15 more years before sofia will be off to college and we will be empty nesters ready to start a new life. right? wrong. oh, so wrong.
this trip was an experience that was needed and greatly appreciated. let's not talk about the fact that the new lens i ordered didn't come until 8:15 pm on thursday. and there was no way i was getting on the airplane without it. we spent the night at bob and d's and at 4:00 am on friday morning bob drove us to the airport. kissing the kids goodbye was a lot easier to do while they were sleeping.
so what does one do for five hours in an airport, in detroit? i'm not going to lie, we thought about getting a cab and going to a movie. but logic got the best of us and we stayed in the airport, had lunch at tequila joe's, no alcohol was consumed, and watched '17 again' on the laptop. cute movie by the way. then we boarded our airbus for the 9 hour flight to rome. we took sleeping pills to help with the long flight. and because it was an international flight movies were free! so we watched 'he's just not that into you' and 'wolverine.' when we woke up in the morning we were in italy.
the other thing i have to admit is that i am terrible with directions. so map in hand i was going to help bobby navigate the crazy road signs for the 3 hour drive to allen's house. we saw the beautiful sights of italy, ate at a roadside autogrill, and decided to take a side road that lead us to the natural sulfur springs.
that was day one. stay tuned for the next post...
in other news:
we took the boys to school on tuesday for their 'unofficial' first day of school photos. they had a great first week and their teachers are awesome! this will be a good year.
today was sofia's first day of preschool. despite the fact that she told me she was not really excited about going to school she had a great time. she will be going 3 days a week.
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